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Phone Sex 101 : Tips for a Phone Bone

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Phone sex is an awesome way to experience pleasure on those nights when you don't want to go out. Also called a Phone Bone ,  aural sex can spice up your relationship even when your significant other is away. With the right environment and words, you can both be turned on and get off.

 

The Voice

It is great to practice your phone voice. You want your voice to still sound like you but just a bit sexier than you normally speak. Talking from your lower chest produces an erotic sound.

 

Say it Loud

Think about what you'll say. Do you have a fantasy in mind ? Do you want to hear him get off ? What gets you off ?  Think about the different things you want to say before you make the call.  It's best to dream up a sexual situation so you can go through your head and describe it step by step.

 

Location Matters

Make sure you're in the right place that is free of noise. It isn't cool to be having phone sex and hear kids in the background.  Imagination makes the experience hot.  Being able to moan and groan will make the session intense.

 

Tools of the Trade

Being prepared for phone sex is essential. Have a premium lubricant that stays slick and doesn't dry out. You don't want to have to break your concentration to re-apply. Gun Oil is my personal choice for the phone bone.  Watching an erotic movie without sound can also turn make the session sizzle.

 

Timing Matters

Schedule a time. If you catch your man at a bad time, you might not get the response you're looking for. Make sure you're going to call when he is alone and has time to engage in phone sex.

 

Play Together

Get him to participate. Describe in detail things that you think he would like you to do. Then, ask. Let him tell you his fantasy. This makes the session a participation event.

 

Silence Sucks

Make noises. When he's describing things to you, don't be shy. Make some moans or sounds. This one might be the most diffiicult if you don't normally make noise in your relationship. But phone sex needs the sounds to increase the pleasure.

 

Make it Feel Real

You are both on the phone. Make it feel like the real thing with the addition of a masturbation toy like the Colt Gear Man Butt Masturbator. If he likes anal, have him use a realistic dildo to allow him to feel you. Be sure to climax together. If you're both touching yourself, you have the control over your orgasm. If you orgasm together it will almost feel like she's actually there.