How to Give the Perfect Massage
Admit it, you've probably given your man more than one half-assed rubdown thinking it was all you had to do to warm him up for sex. But you can do better. " Think of massage as sex without the penetration"
says Dick Ross , a licensed massage therapist from Baltimore. Do it right, and he'll be putty in your hands.
Soak His muscles
Get him relaxed before you turn him out. Prepare a bath and pour in some essential oils. I use the Lavender Massage and Body Oil because it has a silky feel and it works in the bath to soften the water while relaxing the body . On the skin it gives smooth even strokes.This combination will make the bath an ideal way to get his muscles ready for the massage. And it gives you an excuse to towel him off while placing some passionate kisses on his body.
Make Him Comfy
Light a candle to create a romantic mood. The soft flicker of the light along with soft music will heighten the erotic energy. Have him lie on your bed, facedown. Soften your hands with massage oil, then start rubbing his feet. We have thousands of nerve endings in our soles that stimulate the entire nervous system. Massage each foot, then slowly move up to his calves, then legs, and so on. Keep the progression slow.
Change Up Your Strokes
"Start with compressions—lean on the heels of your palms and apply pressure onto her muscles," Urosa says. Then knead—don't poke—her muscles with your fingers. Feather strokes are great on tender areas. Just roll your fingers back and forth while you move your hands up and down the muscle . "Pay attention to the top part of each muscle where it meets the bone."
Focus on His pleasure zones
His inner thighs up to his pelvic bone, ass, and pectoral muscles are all highly sensual areas.They're also neglected by the pros.
Compress the muscles with your hand followed by kneading with your thumbs on the inner thighs, butt, and tailbone.