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How to Get Your Man to Have a Threesome

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If you and your man are willing to try new things and are very secure within your relationship, A threesome can provide a creative new way to explore your inner desires. So, you'd like to coax your man into getting naughty and nasty with a third party? It could be an extremely difficult goal to attain. However, if your man is very open-minded and sexually explicit, initiating a threesome can be a very simple task.

 

Threesomes Aren't For Everyone 

First off, if your significant other isn't a very sexually open-minded individual, then it's quite unlikely that he'll be bringing another man home any time soon. For instance, if he gets jealous when you watch porn, doesnít like to give or receive oral sex, or worse yet, have issues with anal don't even bother suggesting the idea of a threesome.

 

Double Your Pleasure 

For the rest of you who are pretty sure that your man will be down on the idea of bringing another guy into the bedroom, here's the lowdown on how to bring up the idea. Before anything, remember that you shouldn't act overenthusiastic, otherwise your man might feel like this is your way of saying, "I am not satisfied with you as a person and I want someone who can please me. ď No matter how you bring it up, make sure that your man knows that he is what matters most.

 

Gradually begin discussing sex and sexual fantasies. Put your fantasies out on display so that he can get an idea of what you like. When you begin discussing the date for three, don't say something like: "I've always wanted to bang two dudes at the same time!" You should know what to say and the repercussions of being part of a threesome.

 

Itís How You Talk About It

Instead say something like: "I would love to see you kissing another man while I watch." This will flatter him and he won't feel threatened. This way, you get the bonus of joining in at some point once they're into it. If he's open to the whole " thresome experience", then he'll concentrate more on the excitement of having a mini sex party with you, rather than "my man wants to have sex with another dude."

 

Your objective here is to make him understand that you do not want another man (even though that's probably the furthest thing from the truth), you simply want the experience of two men. Now, if you're lucky enough to have the opportunity to set something like this up, he obviously has to be the decision-maker on who the other person will be. I always suggest finding someone at a bar that you donít know. Mutual friends can cause all sorts of problems. An escort is the best way to do this. He isnít invested in your relationship and he will make sure you both are satisfied. That is worth more than his hourly rate.

 

Three May Be A Crowd 

The following are the potential repercussions that may come with engaging in a threesome: 

You're left out: It's possible that the two men may be getting off on each other so intensely that they'll forget you're even in the room.

He becomes extremely jealous: Depending on how things go, your man can become very jealous because you either paid too much attention to the other guy .

You become extremely jealous: Because you may get left out of the entire tryst altogether, you may become jealous due to the fact that you were neglected. 

Your relationship disintegrates: It's possible that you or he will realize that perhaps there's someone out there who is better suited to your needs.

 

Well, there you have it: a nice and easy way of attaining what you want.

Remember that there may be some serious repercussions following the ordeal so make certain that this is what you really want.